If someone you had never thought was gay or bi you caught them in the act with someone of the same sex? Or would you respect them for them?

 

It would not be any of my business who another person has sex with.
I would have the same respect, or lack of respect, I had before.

 

thank you thats what i was looking for. I got caught the other day by a family member dressed and with a guy and they hate me now

 

Sounds like their problem, not yours.

Hush.....an alias

 

If they hate you now they probably didn't think too highly of you to being with. And it isn't any of their business.

 

woodnt bother me! It their prerogative

 

No

Why would that bother me?

 

Thanks everyone. I feel better now. And frankly if my family dont like my lifestyle fuck them. I am happy for the first time in years

 

No it wouldnt bother me. I have gay friends and known lots of gay and Bi sexual people over the years. If they hadt felt the confidence to let me know their sexuality before then I might feel a little saddened at that but wouldnt loose any respect for them and would love them no less

 

"Respect" them for being queer? That's like respecting someone for reading the newspaper.

 

respect is respect full stop .nobody mentioned respect for being "queer". I am "queer" but I am respected for me not my sexuality

 

and since i am bi i should respect you why? cause you close yourself off to half the world? what ever.

 

That's very sad and you are in no way diminished. I hope in time your family will come to realize that.

Good Luck.

Thinskin

 

It was only the second time I was experimenting with cock and I was 18 when while I was sucking my best mates cock and having it all inside my mouth, I hear my mother say from outside the window "whats going on?" there was a gap in the blinds and I freaked out that she had just seen me sucking cock, since then shes made passing comments about my sexuality but never brought it up directly. And no if I were to walk in on someone else its none of my business and I would be all for them for giving it a go. Its not for me to tell them whats best for them sexually.

 

Who my family or friends fuck is no ones business but their own, I don't care if they are straight, gay or bi all i care about is they are happy

 

RESPECT

I respect the sexuality of all people as long as it doesn't involve kids, animals or unwanted force

 

Good to hear! It's always difficult, since at the end of the day they're family and you can't control what they think :/ As above though, their loss, not yours - you're enjoying best of both!

 

Wouldn't matter to me in the least.
But if it is your family you're talking about, that may be different. However, being happy and being yourself is most important.

 

I can understand being surprised, even taken back at first, if you didn´t expect it, but I would come around quickly and it wouldn´t bother me or change y opinion about that person

 

I would respect you all the more for accepting yourself and not letting the ridiculous criticism of others make you feel ashamed. Be yourself, and if all else fails, they can go to hell.